Dates, trips, habits & adventures
Yes no maybe list for couples
41 dates, trips, habits and adventures. You both answer yes, no or maybe, then plan everything you both said yes to.
- Ideas from the CoupleMoment app
- Free to download
- No sign-up to start
- Made for two
A yes no maybe list for couples is a list of things you could do together. Each of you marks every item yes (I’m in), no (not for me) or maybe (let’s talk), on your own, then you compare. Everything you both said yes to becomes your plan. This list keeps it to dates, travel, habits and adventures: 41 ideas, 32 of them word for word from the Bucket List game in the CoupleMoment app, plus 9 everyday couple habits we added. Screenshot it, answer separately, then compare over dinner.
Can’t pick? Shuffle one
Have a food truck crawl date
Part 1 · Dates
12 date ideas: yes, no or maybe?
From cheap and silly to fancy. Mark each one before you look at your partner’s answers.
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Have a food truck crawl date
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Go to a drive-in movie theater
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Take a pottery class together
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Go stargazing with a telescope
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Build a blanket fort and watch movies all night
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Go to a music festival together
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Try every ice cream flavor at a shop
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Take silly photo booth pictures together
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Recreate our first date
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Dance under the stars at midnight
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Have a private candlelit dinner on the beach
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Write love letters to open on our anniversary
Part 2 · Travel
10 trips to say yes, no or maybe to
Some are a weekend, some are a lifetime goal. Both count.
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Take a road trip with no destination planned
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Watch the sunset in Santorini together
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See the Northern Lights together
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Explore the streets of Tokyo at night
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Go on a European train adventure
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Visit a lavender field in Provence
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Take a gondola ride in Venice
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Stay in an overwater bungalow in the Maldives
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Camp under the stars in the Sahara
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Visit all 7 continents as a couple
Part 3 · Adventures & goals
10 adventures and goals for the two of you
The brave ones. A maybe here is a great conversation.
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Go on a hot air balloon ride
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Try surfing lessons together
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Learn to scuba dive as a couple
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Go skydiving together
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Go bungee jumping together
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Hike to Machu Picchu
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Run a marathon together
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Learn a new language together
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Take a cooking class in Italy
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Start a passion project together
Part 4 · Habits
9 couple habits: yes, no or maybe?
Small, repeatable things. The easiest yeses to start this week.
Have a phone-free dinner once a week
Cook dinner together every Sunday
Go for a walk together after dinner
Try a new restaurant every month
Take a weekend trip somewhere new every season
Wake up early together to watch a sunrise
Have a weekly check-in about how we’re doing
Learn a TikTok dance together
Plan one surprise date for each other every month
Parts 1–3 are word for word from the Bucket List game in CoupleMoment. The 9 habits in part 4 were written by the CoupleMoment team for this page.
How to use it
How to use a yes no maybe list as a couple
- Answer separately. Screenshot the list or copy it into your notes. No peeking at your partner’s answers.
- Mark every item yes, no or maybe. No explanations yet.
- Compare. Yes + yes goes straight onto your plan. Yes + maybe is worth a conversation. Anything with a no is off the list, no hard feelings.
- Pick one yes to do this month. Put a date on it, or it stays a list.
| You | Your partner | What to do |
|---|---|---|
| Yes | Yes | Plan it. Start with the cheapest one. |
| Yes | Maybe | Ask what would turn the maybe into a yes. |
| Maybe | Maybe | Save it for later, or try a smaller version first. |
| Any | No | Skip it. A no is an answer, not a debate. |
Looking for more ideas? See our relationship bucket list and fun things to do as a couple.
FAQ
Questions people ask
What is a yes no maybe list for couples?
It’s a list of activities you could do together. Each partner marks every item yes, no or maybe on their own, then you compare. Items you both said yes to become your plan, and maybes become conversations. This one is about dates, travel, habits and adventures.
How do you make a yes no maybe list?
Start with a list of ideas (like the 41 here), copy it into your notes app twice, and each fill it in privately. Then compare side by side and circle every double yes.
Is this list safe for work?
Yes. This yes no maybe list is all dates, trips, habits and adventures. Nothing on it is explicit.
Where do the ideas come from?
32 come word for word from the Bucket List game in the CoupleMoment app. The 9 couple habits at the end were written for this page.
Said yes to a lot? Start planning.
Open the Future Together deck in CoupleMoment and talk about where you’re headed, one card at a time. Free in your browser or on iPhone.
In the app: Conversation Cards · “Future Together” deck (free), plus the Bucket List game.