From the CoupleMoment quiz games

How well do you know me questions

35 quiz questions about favorites, fears and firsts, plus a scoring guide so you can settle who pays more attention.

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  • Made for two
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How well do you know me questions are quiz questions your partner answers about you, like “What’s my go-to comfort food?” or “What’s my love language?”, and you score how many they get right. Here are 35 questions in four rounds: the basics, the deeper stuff, a quick-fire round and your story as a couple. Every question comes word for word from two games in the CoupleMoment app: How Well Do You Know Me? and Rapid Fire. Give 1 point per right answer and check the scoring guide at the end: 28 or more out of 35 means you really pay attention.

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Round 1 · The basics

10 easy questions: favorites and comfort zones

Warm-up. If your partner misses these, the next rounds are going to hurt.

  1. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite food?

  2. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my go-to comfort food?

  3. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite movie of all time?

  4. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite song right now?

  5. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite book or TV show?

  6. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite season and why?

  7. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite way to relax?

  8. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my dream vacation destination?

  9. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What would my perfect day look like?

  10. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's the best gift I've ever received?

Round 2 · The deeper stuff

10 questions only someone who listens can answer

Fears, talents, pet peeves and what actually makes you laugh.

  1. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my biggest fear?

  2. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my most embarrassing moment?

  3. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my hidden talent?

  4. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my pet peeve?

  5. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite childhood memory?

  6. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What do I want to be doing in 10 years?

  7. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's the first thing I notice about people?

  8. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What makes me laugh the hardest?

  9. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my love language?

  10. How Well Do You Know Me?

    What's my favorite thing about our relationship?

Round 3 · Quick fire

8 quick-fire questions about your partner

Answer in five seconds or it doesn’t count. These are written about “your partner”, so you can both answer at the same time and compare.

  1. Rapid Fire

    What's your partner's favorite color?

  2. Rapid Fire

    What side of the bed does your partner sleep on?

  3. Rapid Fire

    What's your partner's biggest pet peeve?

  4. Rapid Fire

    What's your partner's dream car?

  5. Rapid Fire

    What's your partner's favorite movie genre?

  6. Rapid Fire

    What's your partner's ideal weekend activity?

  7. Rapid Fire

    Who is the better cook?

  8. Rapid Fire

    Who takes longer to get ready?

Round 4 · Our story

7 questions about your story as a couple

Firsts and favorite moments. Both of you answer, then see if your memories match.

  1. Rapid Fire

    Where did you go on your first date?

  2. Rapid Fire

    What was the first gift you gave each other?

  3. Rapid Fire

    What was your first trip together?

  4. Rapid Fire

    When did you first say 'I love you'?

  5. Rapid Fire

    What was the first meal you cooked together?

  6. Rapid Fire

    What's the funniest moment in your relationship?

  7. Rapid Fire

    What song was playing during a special moment?

Rounds 1–2 are from the How Well Do You Know Me? game, rounds 3–4 from the Rapid Fire game in CoupleMoment, word for word.

Scoring guide

How to score the “how well do you know me” quiz

Give 1 point for every answer you’d accept as right. You’re the judge for questions about you. For the “our story” round, give the point when your answers match. Then add it up out of 35:

ScoreWhat it means
0–10Strangers in love. Plenty to learn. Start with the deeper questions on your next date night.
11–19Getting there. You know the highlights. The small details are where the points are.
20–27Paying attention. You listen, and it shows. Retake it in six months and beat this.
28–35Basically mind readers. Now swap seats and see if it goes both ways.

Tiebreaker: if you’re both playing, whoever scores higher picks the next date. Want more? Try the how well does your boyfriend know you quiz.

How to play

How to play “how well do you know me”

  1. Pick who’s in the hot seat. One person is “me”; the other answers about them.
  2. Read a question. Your partner answers out loud (or writes it down so there’s no backtracking).
  3. Judge it. Right, wrong or “close enough”. Your call, it’s about you.
  4. Swap. Same questions, other direction. Compare scores.
CoupleMoment App Store screenshot: a Would You Rather card on iPhone, with Maya and Ben
In the app, one phone is enough: it says whose turn it is.

FAQ

Questions people ask

What are good how well do you know me questions?

The best ones mix easy favorites (“What’s my favorite food?”) with things you only know by listening (“What’s my biggest fear?”, “What makes me laugh the hardest?”) and shared memories (“Where did you go on your first date?”). This page has all three, from the CoupleMoment quiz games.

How do you score a how well do you know me quiz?

Give 1 point for each answer the person being asked about accepts as right, then add it up. Out of 35: 0–10 means plenty to learn, 11–19 getting there, 20–27 paying attention, and 28 or more basically mind readers.

Can we play this over text or FaceTime?

Yes. Send one question at a time over text, or read them on a video call. It works the same: they answer, you judge.

Is the How Well Do You Know Me game free in CoupleMoment?

It’s a premium game, and every premium game gets one free try first. Rapid Fire, with the quick-fire and our-story questions, is free. Premium is optional at $9.99/mo or $59.99/yr.

Think you’d score 28+?

Prove it. Open the How Well Do You Know Me? game in CoupleMoment, hand your partner the phone and let the app keep score.

In the app: the “How Well Do You Know Me?” game (premium, with one free try) and Rapid Fire (free).