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Questions to ask your girlfriend
34 cute, funny and deep questions she’ll actually want to answer. Ask one tonight, then let her ask you.
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The best questions to ask your girlfriend are about her and the two of you, not trivia: “What was your very first impression of me, honestly?”, “When do you feel most emotionally connected to me?”, or “When did you first realize you were falling for me?” They show you’ve been paying attention and give her room to tell you something new. Here are 34 questions to ask your girlfriend, all real cards from the CoupleMoment app, word for word: 10 cute and flirty, 8 fun and silly, 8 deep, and 8 about your story and your future. Ask one, really listen, and then answer it yourself.
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What was your very first impression of me, honestly?
Cute & flirty
10 cute questions to ask your girlfriend
Sweet, a little flirty, perfect for a date night or a late text.
- Fun & Flirty
What was your very first impression of me, honestly?
- Fun & Flirty
What is the most attractive thing I do without realizing it?
- Fun & Flirty
What compliment from me always makes you blush?
- Fun & Flirty
If we met as strangers today, would you still flirt with me?
- Fun & Flirty
What song makes you think of me every time you hear it?
- Fun & Flirty
What is your favorite way I show you affection?
- Fun & Flirty
If we were in a movie, what genre would our love story be?
- Fun & Flirty
If you wrote a love letter to me right now, what would the first line be?
- Fun & Flirty
How would you describe our chemistry in three words?
- Fun & Flirty
If you could relive our first kiss, would you change anything?
Fun & silly
8 funny questions to ask your girlfriend
Low stakes, big laughs. Great for road trips.
- Silly Questions
Would you still love me if I was a worm?
- Silly Questions
If we swapped bodies for a day, what's the first thing you'd do?
- Silly Questions
What animal was I in a past life?
- Silly Questions
Who plays you in the movie about us?
- Silly Questions
What's my most annoying habit you secretly love?
- 3rd Date Questions
What's your go-to order at a diner at midnight?
- 3rd Date Questions
What movie can you quote way too much of?
- 3rd Date Questions
What food do you refuse to share?
Deep
8 deep questions to ask your girlfriend
For a quiet night when you both have time. Listen more than you talk.
- Getting Deeper
When do you feel most emotionally connected to me?
- Getting Deeper
What makes you feel truly seen and understood by me?
- Getting Deeper
How do you want to be comforted when you are at your lowest?
- Getting Deeper
What is the one thing you need most from me right now that you haven't asked for?
- Getting Deeper
What does emotional safety mean to you in a relationship?
- Getting Deeper
What do you think is the biggest misconception people have about you?
- Getting Deeper
What part of growing up shaped who you are the most?
- Getting Deeper
What is the hardest lesson love has taught you?
Your story & future
8 questions about your relationship and your future
Where you’ve been and where you’re going.
- Memories
When did you first realize you were falling for me?
- Memories
What is a small moment with me that you will never forget?
- Memories
What moment made you think, "This is the person I want to be with"?
- Future Together
Where do you see us living in ten years?
- Future Together
What is one adventure you want us to have before we grow old?
- Future Together
What tradition do you want us to create and keep forever?
- Future Together
What country do you most want us to explore together?
- Future Together
What is one thing about our future that excites you the most?
All 34 are CoupleMoment Conversation Cards, unedited: Fun & Flirty (ff), Silly Questions (sq), 3rd Date Questions (td), Getting Deeper (gd), Memories (me) and Future Together (ft).
How to ask
How to ask your girlfriend questions (without it feeling like an interview)
- One at a time. Ask one good question and follow up on her answer, instead of firing off five.
- Match the moment. Silly ones in the car, deep ones on a slow evening, flirty ones over text.
- Answer it too. She’ll open up more if you go second and mean it.
- Remember the answers. Bringing one up a week later is the most romantic thing on this page.
Want more? Our blog has a longer list of questions to ask your girlfriend, plus deep questions for couples.
FAQ
Questions people ask
What are good questions to ask your girlfriend?
Good questions are about her and the two of you: “What was your very first impression of me, honestly?”, “When do you feel most emotionally connected to me?” or “What is one adventure you want us to have before we grow old?” Mix cute, funny and deep ones.
What are cute questions to ask your girlfriend over text?
Try “What song makes you think of me every time you hear it?”, “If we were in a movie, what genre would our love story be?” or “How would you describe our chemistry in three words?” Short, sweet and easy to answer on the go.
What are deep questions to ask your girlfriend?
Try “What makes you feel truly seen and understood by me?”, “How do you want to be comforted when you are at your lowest?” or “What is the one thing you need most from me right now that you haven’t asked for?” Ask when you both have time.
Where do these questions come from?
All 34 are real cards from CoupleMoment’s Conversation Cards, word for word. You can play every deck free at app.couplemoment.com.
Ask her one tonight.
Open the Fun & Flirty deck in CoupleMoment and take turns. Free to play in your browser, or get the iPhone app.
In the app: Conversation Cards · “Fun & Flirty”, Getting Deeper, Memories and Future Together decks. Every conversation deck is free.