7 free lists, real cards from the app
Questions to ask your partner
Good questions to ask your partner are open, specific and a little playful, like “When do you feel most emotionally connected to me?” Start light with this or that or silly questions, then go deeper with how well do you know me. Below are 7 free lists from the CoupleMoment app, and every deck plays free in your browser.
- Questions from the CoupleMoment app
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- Made for two
What are good questions to ask your partner? The best ones start with “what”, “when” or “which” instead of “do you”, so the answer turns into a story. Below are 7 free question lists sorted by mood, from silly to serious, all taken from the CoupleMoment app. Read one together on the couch, or open the deck in your browser and take turns, one card at a time.
Question lists
Pick the mood for tonight
Each list is free to read. Tap one to see the questions.
- How well do you know me questions
35 quiz questions plus a scoring guide. Find out who knows who better.
- This or that questions for couples
39 quick picks. Both choose, then compare and argue about it.
- Who’s most likely to questions
34 funny ones to point at each other about.
- Yes no maybe list for couples
41 dates, trips and habits. Answer yes, no or maybe, then compare.
- Questions to ask your girlfriend
34 cute, fun and deep questions to ask her.
- Rage bait questions for your boyfriend
The full Hot Takes deck: no-win questions that start a (fun) fight.
- Dumb questions to ask your boyfriend
32 silly ones, goose included.
How it works
How to use these questions
- Start light. Silly questions and this or that get you laughing in a minute.
- Go deeper. Move to how well do you know me or the yes no maybe list once you are relaxed.
- Swap turns. One reads, both answer, and nobody checks the phone for a reply.
Want more? See 100+ questions to ask your partner, deep questions for couples or couple games you can play on your phone. Choosing an app? Read our best couple apps 2026 comparison.
FAQ
Questions people ask
What are good questions to ask your partner?
Open questions that start with “what”, “when” or “which”, so the answer turns into a story instead of a yes or no. Mix light ones (this or that, silly questions) with a few deeper ones, and answer each question yourself too.
What are fun questions to ask your partner?
Start with the this or that list, the dumb questions from the Silly Questions deck, or the rage bait questions from Hot Takes. They take seconds to answer and usually start a fun debate.
What are deep questions to ask your partner?
Questions about feelings, memories and the future, like “When do you feel most emotionally connected to me?” The Getting Deeper and Future Together decks in CoupleMoment are full of them, and we collected more in deep questions for couples.
Is there an app for couples to answer questions together?
Yes. CoupleMoment deals one question at a time from 11 free decks, on one phone or two, in any browser at app.couplemoment.com or in the iPhone app. Other couple apps focus on one daily question; see our honest couple app comparison.
Are these question lists free?
Yes. Every list on this page is free to read, and every question deck in CoupleMoment is free to play. Premium is optional at $9.99/month or $59.99/year (auto-renewing, no free trial) and adds extra games.
Ready for a better conversation?
Open a free question deck in your browser and take turns reading, or get the iPhone app.
In the app: Conversation Cards, 11 free decks from Fun & Flirty to Getting Deeper.